Boy Butter

Since 2003, Boy Butter has redefined what lubricants can do. Founded by Eyal Feldman in New York City, this brand pioneered coconut oil formulas that deliver silicone-grade staying power while washing away with water alone—no special cleanup required. Twenty years of innovation serving gay men, couples, and anyone who refuses to compromise on performance.

Why Boy Butter Stands Out

1. Water-Washable Without Compromise: Most water-based lubricants sacrifice staying power for easy cleanup. Boy Butter's homogenised formulas last through entire sessions while rinsing completely from skin and fabrics with water alone, eliminating the sheet-staining hassle of silicone alternatives.
2. Purpose-Built for Anal Play: Rather than adapting general-purpose lubricants, Boy Butter developed thick, cushioning formulas specifically for anal penetration. This targeted engineering means users get maximum comfort and glide designed from the ground up for this application.
3. Transparent Ingredient Philosophy: In-house production and ingredient selection mean no mystery additives. Every formula reveals what's inside and why—from Vitamin E for skin nourishment to Benzocaine for numbing, users understand exactly what they're applying.

Boy Butter Product Lines

Boy Butter Original

The signature formula that started it all—coconut oil homogenised into creamy consistency that turns clear on skin contact. Delivers silicone-level longevity, making it ideal for extended sessions without constant reapplication. Completely plant-based, edible, and washes off with water alone. Perfect for massage transitions into intimacy. Explore our full range of anal sex toys to pair with this classic lubricant.

Boy Butter H2O

Water-based hybrid enriched with Vitamin E and Shea Butter for skin comfort across all genders and body types. Creamy texture transforms clear on application while staying compatible with latex condoms—ideal for spontaneous encounters. Long-lasting yet eventually absorbs naturally into skin. Edible formulation means no taste concerns during oral play or kissing.

Boy Butter Clear

Patented Invisigel technology delivers a water-based alternative that mimics silicone's feel and performance. Completely transparent application, hypoallergenic construction without glycerin or pigments, and fortified with Aloe Vera for sensitive skin. Non-staining formula protects all fabrics and bedding. Perfect for users wanting silicone-like sensation without the cleanup complexity.

Boy Butter Extreme

Desensitising formula containing 5% Benzocaine local anaesthetic, homogenised into smooth, creamy texture. Numbs intimate areas for enhanced comfort during anal exploration while helping manage premature ejaculation. Water-washable like all Boy Butter products. Ideal for beginners requiring assistance as they explore new sensations and techniques.

Boy Butter Comfort Cream

A gentler desensitising option offering subtle numbing effects for users seeking comfort without complete sensation loss. Smooth application with water cleanup, this formula bridges the gap between standard lubricant and stronger numbing variants. Perfect for those who want assistance without intensity.

Boy Butter Warming

Creates gentle heating sensation on application to enhance blood flow and amplify sensitivity during foreplay and intercourse. Same water-washable formula as the entire Boy Butter range with convenient 5oz sizing for bedside access. Adds physical sensation variety without complicating cleanup.

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Who Chooses Boy Butter

Gay Men Seeking Anal Performance: Boy Butter was engineered specifically for anal penetration needs. The thick, cushioning formulas and numbing variants provide the exact support this demographic requires. Decades of serving this community means every formula understands anal-specific requirements other brands overlook.

Couples Frustrated with Silicone Residue: Silicone lubricants demand special washing and leave buildup on sheets and toys. Boy Butter's water-washable alternatives deliver comparable longevity without the cleanup hassle, making spontaneous intimacy more practical and comfortable.

Boy Butter Manufacturing Standards

• In-House Production: Formulas are churned and orders packed in Boy Butter's own facility, ensuring direct quality oversight at every production step rather than outsourcing manufacturing.
• Homogenisation Process: Ingredients blend into smooth, creamy texture that eliminates the greasiness or stickiness common in conventionally mixed lubricants, delivering superior glide and application.
• Water-Soluble Engineering: All formulas rinse completely with water alone—no special cleansers, no fabric damage, no residual buildup on skin or toys requiring extensive washing.
• Ingredient Transparency: Every component serves a documented purpose, from Vitamin E providing antioxidant skin protection to Aloe Vera supporting natural healing properties during intimate contact.
• 100% Satisfaction Guarantee: 90-day money-back policy demonstrates confidence in product performance. If a formula doesn't work for your body or preferences, Boy Butter covers the full cost with no questions.

Why Boy Butter Delivers

Boy Butter solves the longevity-versus-cleanup problem that frustrates most lubricant users. The Original formula's coconut oil base delivers silicone-equivalent staying power for extended sessions without leaving sheets sticky or requiring special fabric care. For users wanting water compatibility with condoms, the H2O hybrid adds Shea Butter and Vitamin E while maintaining that signature creamy texture. The Invisigel Clear variant gives silicone-feel performance from a water-based formula—impossible from most competitors. Desensitising options like Extreme target specific use cases with 5% Benzocaine precisely formulated for comfort without complete sensation loss. Twenty years of gay-community focus means Boy Butter understands anal-play requirements other brands never consider.

Using Boy Butter

Apply generously to the penetrating partner and the receiving partner's anus. Boy Butter's homogenised texture stays put without excessive dripping. Reapply as needed during extended sessions—the formulas' thickness means less frequent reapplication than thin water-based alternatives. Cleanup requires only water on skin and standard washing on fabrics. Avoid silicone toys with Original formula (coconut oil degrades silicone); use H2O or Clear variants instead. Store at room temperature away from direct heat. All formulas are condom-compatible except Original, which requires non-latex alternatives. Vitamin E formulations provide skin nourishment, while Benzocaine variants in Extreme require a waiting period before application to allow numbing onset.

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Shop the complete Boy Butter range at Sex-Toy.com.au. Choose from Original coconut oil formula, water-based H2O and Clear variants, or desensitising Extreme and Comfort Cream options. Australian owned, discreet shipping.