Pegging dildos are designed for insertion into the anus during sex, typically worn by one partner using a strap-on harness while penetrating their partner. These dildos provide internal anal stimulation and fullness. The anus contains dense nerve endings that respond to pressure and movement. Pegging reverses traditional penetration roles, allowing any partner—regardless of anatomy—to be the penetrating partner while their partner receives internal stimulation.
Pegging Dildos Quick Facts
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Category: Anal toys
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Common Materials: Silicone, stainless steel, glass, firm TPE
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Typical Sizes: 4 to 8 inches insertable length, 1 to 2 inches diameter
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Power: Non-vibrating (manual) or vibrating options
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Key Features: Harness-compatible base, tapered tip for easier insertion, firm construction for control during penetration
Why Choose Pegging Dildos
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Reverses penetration roles: Either partner can be the penetrating partner regardless of anatomy. This shifts power dynamics and allows exploration of different sexual positions and sensations.
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Targets the prostate: When penetrating a male partner, the dildo can curve or angle to reach the prostate gland. The prostate is highly sensitive to pressure and massage, producing intense sensations.
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Provides control and feedback: The penetrating partner feels the dildo inside their harness during thrusting. This creates sensation for both people simultaneously, unlike strap-on penetration with a hollow harness.
Types of Pegging Dildos
Realistic Dildos for Pegging
These dildos feature a lifelike penis shape with a defined head and shaft. The realistic contours provide varied internal sensations as they move. The tapered tip eases insertion. A wide, flat base or suction cup base secures firmly into the harness during thrusting. Browse realistic pegging dildos for detailed options.
Curved Pegging Dildos
Curved models angle forward or upward to target the prostate or anterior vaginal wall. The curve follows natural body anatomy. During thrusting, the curve applies direct pressure to sensitive internal areas. Curved dildos work well for couples who want focused stimulation rather than general penetration.
Double-Ended Pegging Dildos
Both ends insert—one end goes into the receiving partner's anus or vagina while the other end inserts into the penetrating partner's vagina or anus. Both partners receive internal stimulation simultaneously. These require careful positioning but create connected sensation for both people during penetration.
Vibrating Pegging Dildos
Battery or rechargeable motors inside the dildo create vibration. Vibration adds sensation for the receiving partner during penetration. Some models allow the penetrating partner to control vibration intensity. The vibrations transmit through the harness to the penetrating partner as well.
Stainless Steel Pegging Dildos
Steel pegging dildos are firm and non-porous, making them hygienic and durable. Steel conducts temperature—warm it under running water or cool it in the fridge before use for temperature play. The weight provides different sensations during penetration compared to silicone. Steel works with any lubricant type.
Pegging Dildos Selection Guide
| Type |
What It Does |
Key Feature |
Best For |
| Realistic |
Shaped like a penis with defined head and shaft for varied internal sensations |
Tapered tip, wide harness-compatible base |
Penetrating partners wanting realistic feel and control |
| Curved |
Angles forward to target prostate, G-spot, or A-spot during thrusting |
Forward or upward curve following body anatomy |
Couples wanting focused stimulation of one internal area |
| Double-Ended |
Both ends insert simultaneously for bilateral internal stimulation |
Connected shaft, two insertable ends |
Partners wanting simultaneous penetration and sensation |
| Vibrating |
Motor creates vibration during penetration, adds sensation for both partners |
Rechargeable or battery-powered motor |
Partners wanting added stimulation beyond thrusting motion |
| Stainless Steel |
Firm, non-porous, conducts temperature for warming or cooling before insertion |
Solid construction, compatible with any lube |
Partners who prefer firm penetration and easy cleaning |
| Glass |
Smooth, non-porous surface with slight give, conducts temperature |
Elegant appearance, durable construction |
Partners wanting a premium feel and easy maintenance |
Who Buys Pegging Dildos
Women penetrating male partners: Many heterosexual couples explore pegging because the man receives internal anal or prostate stimulation while the woman controls the penetration. This reverses typical roles and allows both partners to experience penetration. The woman gets sensation through the harness contact while her partner receives prostate or anal stimulation.
LGBTQ+ couples and solo practitioners: Gay couples use pegging dildos for receptive partners to choose their penetrator. Trans men and non-binary people use pegging dildos to penetrate partners without relying on anatomy-dependent toys. Straight couples, gay couples, and lesbian couples all incorporate pegging into their sex lives for pleasure and role flexibility.
Choosing Pegging Dildos
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Firmness and material: Silicone offers flexibility and grip. Stainless steel and glass are firmer, providing more direct pressure and easier thrusting control. Choose firmness based on how the receiving partner likes penetration to feel.
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Shaft shape and curve: Straight shafts work for general penetration. Curved models target the prostate or G-spot. Realistic shapes provide varied internal sensations. Pick based on what sensations the receiving partner wants most.
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Base compatibility: The base must fit securely into your harness. Measure your harness opening and check that the dildo base is slightly larger. A loose base shifts during thrusting and reduces control.
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Length and girth: Longer dildos (7-8 inches) require more relaxation and lube. Shorter dildos (4-5 inches) suit beginners or shallow preference. Thicker dildos provide more fullness sensation. Thinner dildos suit those wanting gentler penetration.
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Harness compatibility: Some dildos work with universal harnesses, others fit specific harness designs. Suction cup bases don't fit all harnesses. Check harness and dildo specs before purchase to confirm compatibility.
Looking After Your Pegging Dildos
Wash pegging dildos thoroughly after each use with warm water and mild soap, paying special attention to the base where the harness makes contact. Silicone dildos can go in the top rack of the dishwasher. Steel and glass dildos are non-porous and boil-safe for sterilisation. Store in a cool, dry place away from direct sunlight. Use water-based lubricant with silicone toys to avoid surface damage. Steel and glass work with any lubricant type. Check the harness for wear where the dildo base inserts, and wash the harness interior after use to prevent moisture buildup.
Goes Well With
Strap-On Harnesses
A harness holds the pegging dildo securely during penetration. The penetrating partner wears the harness around the hips and waist. Browse strap-on harnesses and pegging sets to find a harness that fits your body and dildo base securely.
Read Up
Pegging requires different positioning, communication, and lube technique than other types of penetration. Our guide covers relaxation methods for the receiving partner, optimal angles for prostate or G-spot targeting, and communication during the penetration process. Read our pegging guide for beginners.
Shop Pegging Dildos
Our pegging dildo range includes realistic models, curved designs for targeted prostate stimulation, and double-ended options for simultaneous penetration. Silicone, stainless steel, and glass materials suit different preferences for firmness and maintenance. Choose from compact sizes for gradual relaxation or longer models for experienced users. Discreet delivery Australia-wide.