Sex Toys For Couples

Sex toys for couples are designed to be used during sex between partners. They enhance sensation, shift focus to areas that need extra stimulation, and free up hands for other touch. Common types include vibrators that work on the clitoris during penetration, toys that both partners can wear simultaneously, and remote-control options where one partner controls the other's pleasure. Many couples use them to address specific challenges—like difficulty reaching orgasm—or simply to add variety to their sex life.

Why Choose Sex Toys For Couples

1. Targets Specific Pleasure Points: Most women need clitoral stimulation to orgasm. A vibrator on the clitoris during penetration provides the dual sensation many require, while the penetrating partner stays engaged.
2. Addresses Real Physical Challenges: Some men finish too quickly; a vibrator on the clitoris lets him last longer while she still reaches orgasm. Some women struggle with orgasm during sex; a toy makes the difference between frustration and satisfaction.
3. Increases Sensation for Both Partners: Vibrating cock rings create vibration for the receiving partner while the wearer feels the stimulation against his own body. Couples' vibrators positioned between bodies mean both partners experience the buzz.

Types of Sex Toys For Couples

Couples' Vibrators

These vibrators position one part against the clitoris and another inside the vagina, or sit between bodies so both partners feel vibration during penetration. The clitoral arm is external and angled to stay in contact during sex. They're designed specifically so the penetrating partner doesn't feel the toy getting in the way. Browse couples' vibrators.

Vibrating Cock Rings

A ring worn around the base or shaft of the penis, usually silicone, with a small vibrator built in or attached. The vibration stimulates the clitoris during penetration while the wearer feels vibration against his own body. Some have removable vibrators; others are fixed. Battery or rechargeable options available.

Remote-Control Vibrators

One partner wears or controls a vibrator while the other partner holds the remote, deciding when to increase speed or change patterns. This power dynamic appeals to couples who enjoy one partner controlling the other's sensation. Remote-control vibrators work for solo wear or during sex.

Wearable Vibrators

These vibrators attach to the body using elastic straps or adhesive, leaving both partners' hands free. Some sit on the clitoris; others position internally. They work during partnered sex because both people can move freely without holding anything. Battery life typically ranges from 30 minutes to 2 hours.

Dual-Stimulation Dildos

Non-vibrating toys with two insertable parts—one vaginal, one anal—or an internal shaft with an external clitoral arm. They deliver simultaneous internal and external pressure without needing batteries. Partners can thrust while the toy stays in place, or one partner controls movement while the other experiences fullness.

Sex Toys For Couples Selection Guide

Who Buys Sex Toys For Couples

Women who don't orgasm from penetration alone: Research shows most women require clitoral stimulation to reach orgasm. Adding a vibrator during sex solves the frustration of climaxing easily solo but struggling during partnered sex. The penetrating partner appreciates that she now finishes rather than faking.

Men who finish too quickly: Premature ejaculation affects many men. A vibrator on the clitoris lets him slow down and stay inside longer while she still receives intense sensation and reaches orgasm. The focus shifts from his speed to her pleasure, reducing pressure on his performance.

Long-term couples seeking novelty: After years together, new sensations refresh sex without needing a different partner. A vibrator changes what pleasure feels like and what positions work. It's a tool to break routine, not a replacement for each other.

Couples exploring power exchange: Remote-control toys appeal to couples interested in one partner controlling the other's sensation. The dynamic of holding the remote—deciding when pleasure happens—adds psychological intensity to physical sensation.

Choosing Sex Toys For Couples

• Size and Shape: Couples' vibrators come in compact travel sizes and full-length versions. Measure the space between bodies during your preferred positions to ensure the toy fits without discomfort or feeling like it's in the way.
• Vibration Strength: Some women need intense vibration to orgasm; others find it overwhelming. Look for multiple power levels or patterns so you can adjust intensity during sex. Rechargeable toys usually offer stronger vibration than battery models.
• Material and Body Safety: Medical-grade silicone is safest for internal contact and compatible with water-based lubricant. Metal and glass toys are non-porous and last longer but transmit vibration differently. Check material compatibility with your preferred lubricant.
• Noise Level: Vibrators range from nearly silent to clearly audible. If discretion matters—shared housing, thin walls—seek toys specifically marketed as quiet. Rechargeable models are often quieter than battery-powered versions.
• Power Source: Battery toys are immediately ready to use. Rechargeable toys require planning but eliminate battery costs and environmental waste. Remote-control toys need two power sources—one for the toy, one for the remote.

Looking After Your Sex Toys For Couples

Wash silicone and ABS plastic toys with warm soapy water or toy cleaner after each use, paying special attention to seams and crevices where bacteria collect. Glass and stainless steel can be boiled for deeper cleaning. Store toys in a clean, dry place away from direct sunlight, which degrades silicone. Use only water-based lubricant with silicone toys, as oil-based and silicone-based lubes break down silicone material. Any lubricant works with glass and metal toys. For rechargeable toys, charge fully before first use and follow the manufacturer's charging instructions to extend battery lifespan.

Goes Well With

Lubricants

Water-based lubricant makes toys glide smoothly and reduces friction that can cause discomfort during extended use. Silicone toys need water-based lube; glass and metal toys work with any lube type. High-quality lubricant transforms the sensation by reducing drag and increasing comfort, making orgasm easier to reach.

Remote-Control Options

If you enjoy one partner controlling the other's pleasure, remote-control vibrators designed for wearable use expand the possibilities beyond couples' toys. Some work during sex; others work solo or in public settings, adding an extra layer of power dynamic.

Read Up

New to couples' toys? Our guide covers positioning the toy so it doesn't shift during movement, finding the right vibration strength for clitoral contact, and communication techniques to introduce toys without creating insecurity. Read the couples' sex toys guide.

Shop Sex Toys For Couples

Our couples' collection includes compact vibrators designed to stay in place during penetration, remote-control wearables that shift control between partners, cock rings with varying vibration strengths, and dual-stimulation toys for simultaneous internal and external sensation. Rechargeable options eliminate battery changes mid-session. Waterproof construction works in the shower or bath. Discreet delivery Australia-wide, with plain packaging and unmarked billing.