Bondage Collars

Bondage collars encircle the neck to signal submission or control during BDSM play. They range from soft fabric designs to rigid metal collars, and many include attachment points for leashes or restraints. The wearer's partner typically controls the collar, making it a physical symbol of power exchange. Some collars lock, placing control entirely with the keyholder.

Why Choose Bondage Collars

1. Physical Control and Sensation: A collar around the neck creates immediate awareness of restriction. The wearer feels constant gentle pressure on a sensitive area, reinforcing the dynamic between partners during sex.
2. Clear Power Exchange Signal: Wearing a collar communicates submission visually and physically. For couples practising BDSM, the collar becomes a tangible symbol that shifts the power dynamic before any other activity begins.
3. Practical Attachment Points: Metal D-rings sewn into collars allow leashes, chains, and restraints to attach securely. This keeps hands free for other activities while maintaining control.

Types of Bondage Collars

Leather Collars

Leather collars mould to the neck over time and feel luxurious against skin. They're durable through repeated use and withstand moisture. Leather accepts dyes for colour options and stamps for personalisation. Many include multiple D-rings for attaching restraints. These work for both casual play and long-term wear. See our full bondage gear collection for leather options and matching restraints.

Metal Collars

Stainless steel collars create a rigid, immovable sensation. They're cool to the touch and don't absorb moisture, making cleaning straightforward. Metal collars often feature multiple attachment points and many accept padlocks for permanent wear during play sessions. The weight around the neck reinforces submission physically.

Silicone Collars

Silicone collars suit sensitive skin and those with metal allergies. They're flexible, waterproof, and easy to clean thoroughly. Silicone won't conduct temperature, so they stay neutral against skin. Many silicone collars include textured surfaces and reinforced attachment points for heavier restraints.

Neoprene Collars

Neoprene collars provide cushioning and comfort for extended wear. The material breathes slightly better than solid rubber, reducing sweat buildup. Many include soft inner linings over firm outer shells. Neoprene collars work well for first-timers because they're gentler than rigid metal designs.

Locking Collars

Locking collars fasten with padlocks, removing the wearer's choice to remove it. The keyholder maintains complete control over when it comes off. Locking mechanisms vary from simple padlock slots to integrated locking systems. These suit extended play sessions or 24/7 power exchange dynamics.

Bondage Collar Selection Guide

Who Buys Bondage Collars

Submissive partners in established BDSM relationships: These people wear collars regularly, sometimes for hours or days. They experience the collar as a constant reminder of their submissive role. The sensation focuses arousal and reinforces the power dynamic before sex begins.

Dominant partners seeking visible control: A collared partner signals to the dominant that they hold power. During sex, the collar becomes a physical tool—they can grip it, attach a leash, or simply see it as a visual reminder of control. Many dominants find the sight of their partner in a collar intensely arousing.

Choosing Bondage Collars

• Comfort for Extended Wear: If wearing for hours, choose padded or flexible materials. Rigid metal works for short scenes but causes discomfort during long sessions. Test adjustability before purchasing to ensure proper fit.
• Attachment Points: Count the D-rings or attachment loops. More points give more options for leashes and restraints. Ensure rings are welded, not glued, for safety during intense pulling.
• Locking Versus Adjustable: Locking collars require a keyholder present to remove. Adjustable collars suit shorter scenes where the wearer needs quick release. Consider your typical play duration.
• Material for Your Skin: Leather and neoprene suit dry skin. Silicone works for sensitive skin or those who sweat heavily. Metal doesn't absorb sweat and won't irritate skin, but conducts temperature changes sharply.
• Hygiene and Cleaning: Silicone and metal are easiest to sanitise completely. Leather requires careful drying to prevent mildew. Neoprene needs air-drying to remove moisture from the inner lining.

Looking After Your Bondage Collar

Metal and silicone collars clean with warm soapy water and dry completely before storage. Leather requires gentle wiping with a damp cloth and should air-dry away from direct heat to prevent cracking. Neoprene collars need thorough drying inside and out—stand them upright to air-dry, never sealed in bags while damp. Store all collars flat or hanging from a hook in a cool, dark place. Check attachment rings and stitching regularly for wear before intense scenes. Never use lubricants on collars unless specified by the manufacturer.

Goes Well With

Leashes

A leash attaches to your collar's D-ring for hands-on control during sex or foreplay. Your partner guides movement by the leash, combining the collar's psychological effect with active physical control. Explore leash options that pair with your collar choice.

Read Up

New to collar play? Our BDSM for beginners guide covers collar safety, fitting correctly to avoid circulation loss, and how to communicate about power exchange dynamics before your first scene.

Shop Bondage Collars

Our bondage collar range includes leather collars with multiple D-rings, locking metal designs for full control, padded neoprene for extended wear, and silicone options for sensitive skin. Matching leashes, cuffs, and restraint sets available. Plain packaging, nothing identifiable on your statement.