


Dual-action anal plug with spreading fingers and nine vibration speeds controlled by wireless remote up to 9.8 metres away.
Key Features:
Genuine spreading motion opens and closes up to two point five centimetres
Nine vibration speeds combined with eight spreading patterns offer endless combinations
Wireless remote operates from nine point eight metres away during play
Tapered shaft design enables comfortable insertion before expanding for deeper sensation
Rechargeable battery eliminates ongoing battery replacement costs throughout regular use
Gender X Spread the Love Anal Plug with Wireless Remote is a dual-action vibrating plug that combines spreading fingers with deep vibrations. Two tapered shafts spread up to 2.5 cm apart, creating rhythmic sensations while nine vibration speeds deliver customizable intensity. The wireless remote offers 9.8 m range control, making this waterproof silicone toy perfect for solo exploration or partnered play.
This toy stands apart with its dual-action design—vibrating fingers spread and contract while delivering constant stimulation. The ergonomic handle doubles as a safety base, and the tapered shafts slim for easy insertion before widening for deeper sensation. See the full range in our vibrating butt plugs collection.
The spreading motion delivers sensations standard plugs cannot match. You can also view our anal vibrators selection for additional options.
Phthalate and latex-free silicone ensures safe internal use. The toy is lab-tested and body-safe, with a firm yet flexible construction that glides smoothly. The ergonomic base prevents accidental slipping while the tapered shafts reduce insertion discomfort.
Pair this with external vibrators for blended stimulation. The remote range means a partner can control sensations from across the room. Experiment with different spreading and vibration combinations to discover preferred patterns. Thrust gently or allow the plug to move with your body for hands-free pleasure.
Wash with warm water and mild soap after each use. The IPX6 waterproof rating means you can rinse thoroughly under running water. Store in a cool, dry location away from direct sunlight. Keep the remote separate and ensure it's protected from water damage during storage.
The spreading fingers create a unique sensation different from standard plugs—a gentle opening and closing that intensifies with each spreading pattern. Combined with vibrations, this creates rhythmic fullness rather than constant pressure. The tapered entry makes initial insertion straightforward, then the wider shaft settles deeper for satisfying stimulation.
Vibration intensity builds progressively through nine speeds. The spreading motion is noticeable but gradual—not jarring or uncomfortable. Users report the combination of both actions creates deeper sensations than vibration alone. The remote control removes any fumbling, allowing you to focus entirely on sensation.
Anal exploration often starts with fear of discomfort or pain. This plug addresses those concerns through its tapered entry and gradual spreading motion—your body controls the pace and intensity. The dual-action design means you're not just receiving vibration; you're experiencing a spreading sensation that mimics natural body responses. Solo users appreciate the freedom the wireless remote provides, while partnered users enjoy the intimacy of a partner controlling sensations from across the room. This toy builds confidence through manageable, customizable stimulation. Whether you're beginning exploration or seeking new sensations, the combination of gentle spreading and variable vibration patterns respects your body's responses while delivering measurable pleasure.
I was initially nervous about the spreading aspect, but the tapered design made insertion straightforward. Once inside, the vibrations felt deeper than I expected—the wider shaft settles perfectly. The spreading motion is subtle at first but becomes more pronounced as you increase the speed pattern. I particularly appreciated starting with vibration alone before adding the spreading function. The remote worked flawlessly from across the room; my partner appreciated the control without any awkward positioning. Battery life exceeded my expectations, easily handling an hour of continuous use. The waterproof rating meant I could confidently use it in the shower, which added a whole new dimension. Cleaning was simple with just warm water and soap. After several weeks of regular use, the toy feels just as responsive as day one. Individual results may vary based on anatomy, sensitivity, and usage.
| Product Type | Unique Advantage | Key Difference | Choose This If You Want |
|---|---|---|---|
| Gender X Spread the Love | Dual-action spreading plus vibration in one toy | Most plugs offer vibration only without spreading motion | Novel sensations and customizable intensity control |
| Silicone vibrators | Versatile external and internal use options | Lack the spreading finger mechanism and anal-specific design | Multi-purpose stimulation across different body areas |
| Silicone and flexible plugs | Wide range of sizes and flexibility options | Standard stationary design without spreading or vibration features | Simple, budget-friendly exploration without extra functions |
| Silicone butt plugs | Designed specifically for comfort and safety | Basic design without vibration or spreading capabilities | Focused pleasure through shape alone without batteries |
Each option serves different preferences. Standard plugs suit those wanting simplicity; this toy appeals to users seeking innovation and control. The spreading mechanism genuinely sets it apart from every other vibrating plug on the market.
Waterproof toys offer unique advantages for exploration in different settings. Read our guide to the best waterproof sex toys for additional tips on care, safety, and maximizing your waterproof toy collection. Understanding material quality ensures confident, healthy use.
The spreading fingers deliver sensations standard plugs can't match. Order now and experience the dual-action design firsthand. Discreet Australian shipping means you can start within days, with everything included for immediate use right out of the box.
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Two tapered shafts spread up to 2.5 cm apart while delivering vibrations simultaneously, creating rhythmic opening-and-closing sensations that standard plugs cannot replicate. Medical-grade silicone construction ensures safety, with nine vibration speeds and eight spreading patterns offering customizable combinations. The wireless remote operates from 9.8 metres away, making hands-free control practical for solo or partnered exploration.
Gentle finger-like expansion creates a unique fullness that mimics natural body responses rather than constant pressure. The tapered entry allows gradual insertion before the wider shaft settles deeper, intensifying sensations progressively. Combined with nine vibration speeds, the spreading function delivers rhythmic waves of stimulation that build intensity through customizable patterns, offering depth standard vibrators cannot match.
Gradual spreading motion prevents jarring sensations, allowing your body to adjust at your own pace throughout use. The ergonomic safety base doubles as a handle, preventing accidental slipping while the tapered design reduces insertion discomfort significantly. IPX6 waterproof construction enables shower use without removal, and extended battery life easily supports hour-long sessions without interruption or performance loss.
Partners particularly benefit from remote control that enables sensation management from across the room without positioning awkwardness, deepening intimacy during shared exploration. People beginning anal play appreciate the tapered entry reducing initial anxiety, while the customizable spreading and vibration options build confidence progressively. Those seeking intensity beyond standard vibration find the dual-action mechanism delivers measurable pleasure through novel sensations standard plugs cannot provide.
Washing with warm water and mild soap after each use keeps the toy hygienically clean, while the IPX6 waterproof rating permits thorough rinsing under running water without damage concerns. Store in a cool, dry location away from direct sunlight, keeping the wireless remote separate and protected from moisture during storage. Individual results may vary based on anatomy, sensitivity, and usage. Regular maintenance preserves responsiveness and performance across weeks of consistent use.
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