Strap On Sextoys

Strap-on dildos attach to a harness worn around the hips or thighs, allowing hands-free penetration during sex. The wearer controls depth and rhythm while their partner experiences internal stimulation. People use strap-ons for vaginal or anal penetration, and they're popular with couples exploring different dynamics, people with penises who prefer not to use their own, and same-sex partners.

Why Choose Strap-On Sextoys

1. Hands-Free Penetration: Once the harness is on, the wearer's hands stay free for touching, caressing, or stimulating their partner's clitoris or other sensitive areas during sex.
2. Customisable Experience: Different harness styles fit different bodies. O-ring harnesses accept multiple dildo sizes, so one harness works with various toys. Curved or angled shafts target the G-spot or prostate more effectively.
3. Control and Comfort: The wearer controls speed, depth, and angle with their hips rather than their arms, reducing fatigue during longer sessions. Adjustable straps ensure a secure fit without cutting off circulation.

Types of Strap-On Sextoys

Waistband Harnesses

These wrap around the waist like a belt and hold the dildo in front. They're the most common style and work well for penetrating a partner from behind or face-to-face. Waistband harnesses distribute weight evenly and stay secure during movement. Browse strap-on collections for various waistband styles and dildo combinations.

Thigh Harnesses

A dildo attaches to a harness worn on the thigh, leaving the wearer's genitals exposed. Thigh harnesses work well for people who want penetration without covering their own penis or vulva. They allow simultaneous penetration and stimulation, and some designs include vibration on the wearer's side as well.

O-Ring Harnesses

A simple ring attached to a waistband or thigh piece holds any dildo with a flared base. O-ring harnesses are minimalist and affordable, allowing you to swap between multiple dildos without buying separate harnesses. They work with almost any dildo shape and size, making them popular for people who own diverse toy collections.

Jock-Style Harnesses

These resemble a jock strap with an o-ring attachment point. Jock harnesses minimise coverage, expose more of the wearer's body, and feel less restrictive than full waistband styles. They're popular for people who find traditional harnesses uncomfortable or want a lighter option for longer wear.

Double-Ended Dildos with Harness

One end inserts into the wearer's body for internal stimulation while the other end penetrates their partner. This design creates simultaneous stimulation for both people. Double-ended designs work best with waistband harnesses and require careful positioning to keep both ends secure during movement.

Strap-On Selection Guide

Who Buys Strap-On Sextoys

Heterosexual Couples: Women who want hands-free penetration while stimulating their clitoris or having their partner's hands free for caressing. Men who enjoy being penetrated anally but prefer a partner they can see and kiss. Couples exploring role reversal or power dynamics.

Same-Sex Couples: Lesbian and bisexual women who want realistic or abstract penetration without a penis present. Gay and bisexual men who want to penetrate a partner anally while maintaining eye contact and physical closeness. Trans and non-binary people seeking penetration that feels right for their body.

Choosing Strap-On Sextoys

• Harness Size and Fit: Measure your waist or thigh circumference carefully. Harnesses come in small, medium, large, or adjustable sizes. A poorly fitting harness slips during sex or cuts off circulation, making the experience uncomfortable or unsafe.
• Dildo Attachment Method: O-ring harnesses accept multiple dildos, while some harnesses have a fixed attachment point. Consider whether you want flexibility to swap dildos or prefer one secure attachment designed for a specific toy.
• Dildo Depth and Girth: Consider your partner's comfort. Longer dildos (8+ inches) go deeper; shorter ones (4-6 inches) work for lighter penetration. Girth matters more for comfort than length. Start smaller if your partner is new to penetration.
• Material Compatibility: Silicone, glass, and stainless steel are all compatible with any water-based lubricant. Rubber toys require water-based lube only. Check your dildo's material and ensure your harness won't degrade the toy (quality silicone harnesses don't damage silicone dildos).
• Harness Style Comfort: Waistband harnesses feel more secure but cover more skin. Thigh and jock harnesses leave more exposed but require careful fit adjustment. Consider how much coverage feels right for you and your partner.

Looking After Your Strap-On Sextoys

Clean the dildo after use with warm soapy water or a toy cleaner. Most silicone, glass, and stainless steel toys can be boiled or placed in the dishwasher on high heat. Wash the harness straps and any fabric components by hand with warm soapy water and air dry—never put fabric harnesses in the washing machine as the attachment points can weaken. Store in a dry place away from direct heat. Always use water-based lubricant with silicone toys; any lubricant works with glass and metal. Check harness stitching regularly for wear, especially around attachment points.

Goes Well With

Dildos and Dong Toys

Your harness works with most dildos that have a flared base or fit your specific attachment method. Browse dildos and dongs to find curved, realistic, or abstract shapes that match your penetration preferences and body anatomy.

Read Up

New to strap-on sex? Our beginner guide covers harness fitting, dildo selection for your partner's anatomy, communication before trying it, and positioning for comfort and control. Read the pegging and strap-on guide.

Shop Strap-On Sextoys

Our strap-on range includes waistband, thigh, jock, and o-ring harnesses in small through extra-large sizes. Shop matched sets with integrated dildos or buy harnesses and dildos separately for custom combinations. Curved shafts for G-spot or prostate targeting, realistic designs, and abstract shapes available. Discreet delivery Australia-wide.