Remote Control Vibrators

Remote control vibrators let your partner control the vibrations from a distance using a wireless remote. The toy vibrates inside you or against you while someone else adjusts the intensity and patterns—they can change settings from across the room, during sex, or even from a separate location if it's a long-range remote. The sensation is intensified by the unpredictability; you don't know when the vibrations will change, making it popular for couples who enjoy relinquishing control.

Why Choose Remote Control Vibrators

1. Partner Control Adds Anticipation: You can't predict when vibrations will start or stop, intensifying arousal through surprise. Your partner becomes an active participant in your pleasure rather than a bystander, deepening connection during sex.
2. Hands-Free During Sex: With the remote, your partner's hands stay free to touch you, penetrate you, or stimulate other areas while controlling the toy. This enables simultaneous penetration and clitoral vibration without awkward positioning.
3. Long-Range Models Enable Teasing Scenarios: Some remote vibrators work from 5-10 metres away, allowing your partner to control sensations while you move around or during foreplay in different rooms, building anticipation before sex.

Types of Remote Control Vibrators

Remote-Controlled Wand Vibrators

Wand vibrators with remote controls offer broad, powerful vibration across a larger surface area. The remote controls intensity and pattern settings while you hold the wand against the clitoris or any external area. These suit couples who want straightforward clitoral stimulation without insertion, and the broad head provides consistent pressure. Browse vibrators including remote-controlled wands for options ranging from compact to full-size.

Remote-Controlled Rabbit Vibrators

Rabbit vibrators with remote controls combine internal shaft vibration with external arm vibration on the clitoris. Your partner adjusts both independently or together via remote. The internal component stimulates the G-spot while the external arm vibrates the clitoris, making these ideal for women who need dual stimulation to orgasm during partnered sex.

Remote-Controlled Egg Vibrators

Small egg-shaped vibrators controlled by remote are discreet and portable. Worn internally, they provide subtle vibration during foreplay or sex. Partners control intensity from the remote, surprising you with bursts of sensation. Some eggs are designed to wear under clothing for public teasing scenarios where your partner controls vibrations from a distance.

Remote-Controlled Couples' Vibrators

These curved vibrators are designed for use during partnered penetration, positioning one part against the clitoris and another against the penis or inside the vagina. The remote lets one partner control the sensation for both during sex. These suit couples wanting simultaneous stimulation without either partner controlling the toy manually.

Remote-Controlled Wearable Vibrators

Wearable designs include panty vibrators and hands-free models held in place by straps or worn internally. Your partner uses the remote to trigger vibrations while you're free to kiss, embrace, or position yourselves however you want during sex. Long-range remotes allow sensation control while moving around or during foreplay before intercourse begins.

Remote Control Vibrators Selection Guide

Who Buys Remote Control Vibrators

Couples in long-distance relationships: Remote control vibrators with long-range connectivity (5-10+ metres or app-controlled via internet) allow partners to stimulate each other remotely. Someone feels sensations their distant partner controls, creating intimacy and sexual connection across distance without being in the same room.

Women who enjoy relinquishing control: Handing the remote to your partner removes your control over sensation. You surrender to whatever vibration pattern and intensity they choose, intensifying arousal through vulnerability and surprise. This suits couples exploring dominance and submission dynamics during sex.

Choosing Remote Control Vibrators

• Control Range Matters for Your Setup: Short-range remotes (3-5 metres) work during sex in one room. Long-range remotes (10+ metres or app-controlled) enable teasing across rooms or distances. Decide whether you want surprise-based play nearby or distance-based teasing scenarios.
• Internal, External, or Dual Stimulation: Choose based on how you prefer sensation—internal only (eggs, smaller insertables), external only (wands), or dual (rabbits). Know your anatomy and what pressure or vibration produces orgasm for you or your partner.
• Number of Vibration Patterns: Simple on-off remotes suit couples wanting straightforward control. Multiple vibration patterns (pulsing, waves, escalation) offer variety and new sensations across different sex sessions without buying different toys.
• Noise Level If Discreet Use Matters: Some remote vibrators are nearly silent, others have audible motors. If you use the toy during sex when noise matters, check motor specifications. Brushless motors typically run quieter than older brush motor designs.
• Battery Life and Recharge Time: Most rechargeable remote vibrators run 1-2 hours per charge, taking 1-2 hours to recharge. Longer sessions require planning ahead. Some older models use replaceable batteries, offering more runtime but requiring battery stock.

Looking After Your Remote Control Vibrators

Clean silicone toys with warm water and mild soap before and after use, or use toy cleaner. Dry completely before storing to prevent mildew. Keep the remote separate from the toy to avoid accidental activation. Store both in a cool, dry place away from direct sunlight, which can degrade silicone over time. Use only water-based lubricant with silicone toys, as silicone-based lubes can cause degradation. Recharge according to instructions (typically monthly even if unused) to maintain battery health. Keep the remote away from moisture and extreme temperatures.

Goes Well With

Sex Toys for Couples

Remote control vibrators pair naturally with lubricant designed for partnered sex, positioning pillows for comfort during dual stimulation, and other sex toys designed for couples that enhance connection and simultaneous pleasure during intercourse or foreplay.

Read Up

New to remote control vibrators? Our guide covers positioning the toy correctly during sex, understanding vibration patterns, and communication tips so both partners enjoy the experience. Read the remote control vibrator guide.

Shop Remote Control Vibrators

Our remote control vibrator range includes compact wands, dual-stimulation rabbits, and wearable designs from travel-size to full-length. Short-range remotes provide in-room control, while long-range and app-controlled models suit distance teasing. Rechargeable models with multiple vibration patterns offer variety across different sessions. Discreet delivery Australia-wide.