Dongs are non-vibrating penetrative toys designed for internal stimulation. The shaft enters the vagina or anus, providing fullness and pressure without motorised sensation. People use dongs for solo masturbation, during partnered sex, or with harnesses for strap-on play. Unlike vibrators, dongs rely on manual movement and body positioning to create sensation.
Dongs Quick Facts
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Category: Penetrative toys
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Common Materials: Silicone, glass, stainless steel, realistic TPE, ABS plastic
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Typical Sizes: 12cm to 30cm length, varying girths from slim to thick
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Power: Manual only—no batteries or charging required
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Key Features: Curved or straight shafts, textured or smooth surfaces, harness-compatible bases
Why Choose Dongs
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Direct Internal Pressure: The shaft stimulates the vaginal walls or prostate without vibration. You control depth, angle, and pace entirely through your own movement or thrusting.
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No Battery Dependency: Manual toys never die mid-session. There's no charging wait, no dead batteries, and nothing to replace. Pick it up and use it immediately.
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Versatility Across Activities: Dongs work solo, during partnered sex, or inserted into harnesses for strap-on play. One toy serves multiple purposes depending on your situation.
Types of Dongs
Realistic Dongs
These dongs mimic the appearance and feel of an erect penis. The material is typically realistic TPE or silicone with textured details like veining and a defined head. They're popular for solo use and during partnered sex. Browse realistic dongs that range from modest to extremely detailed designs.
Curved Dongs
A pronounced curve targets the front vaginal wall where the G-spot sits. The tip angles upward to apply direct pressure as you thrust. Curved dongs work best during masturbation when you can control the angle precisely, or during partnered sex for consistent G-spot contact.
Double-Ended Dongs
Two shafts connected at the centre allow penetration of two people simultaneously, or insertion into two openings on one person. These toys sit partially inside each user. They're popular for couples who want dual penetration without a harness or third toy.
Glass and Metal Dongs
Non-porous, temperature-responsive materials that feel firm and smooth. Glass and stainless steel dongs don't degrade over time, can be boiled for sterilisation, and feel luxurious. Some people heat them under warm water or cool them in the fridge before use for temperature play.
Harness-Compatible Dongs
Designed with a flared base or O-ring attachment point that secures into a harness. The wearer controls depth and angle while the receiving partner experiences hands-free penetration. Common in lesbian sex, trans relationships, and couples exploring role dynamics.
Dongs Selection Guide
| Type |
What It Does |
Key Feature |
Best For |
| Realistic Dong |
Mimics penis shape and appearance for familiar sensation |
Textured veining and defined head |
Solo play, visual appeal during sex |
| Curved Dong |
Targets G-spot or prostate through angled pressure |
Pronounced upward curve |
Couples seeking consistent G-spot contact |
| Double-Ended Dong |
Penetrates two people or openings simultaneously |
Two connected shafts |
Couples wanting dual penetration without harness |
| Glass Dong |
Provides firm, smooth sensation with temperature play potential |
Non-porous, heat-responsive |
Temperature play, long-term durability |
| Metal Dong |
Delivers intense internal pressure with temperature control |
Stainless steel construction, weight |
Users preferring firm toys and temperature sensations |
| Harness Dong |
Enables hands-free penetration when worn in a harness |
Flared base or O-ring mount |
Strap-on play, couples exploring role dynamics |
Who Buys Dongs
Women exploring G-spot stimulation: The front vaginal wall responds to pressure in ways that penetration alone doesn't provide. A curved dong applied at the right angle creates intense sensation. Many women who struggle to orgasm during partnered sex find consistent G-spot contact from a dong makes climax more achievable.
Couples in strap-on relationships: Whether exploring role play, female-led dynamics, or trans relationships, harness-compatible dongs allow one partner to penetrate the other hands-free. The receiving partner controls depth through movement while the wearer controls pace and angle.
Choosing Dongs
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Material Texture: Smooth silicone provides frictionless glide. Textured or realistic dongs create more sensation during thrusting. Choose based on whether you want straightforward penetration or additional texture on the shaft.
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Firmness: Silicone is moderately flexible. Glass and metal are completely rigid. Firmness affects how much the toy bends with your body's movement and how intensely it can target internal structures like the prostate.
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Curve and Length: A pronounced curve targets the front wall; straight dongs work for any angle. Measure your comfortable depth—longer isn't always better if it presses against your cervix uncomfortably during thrusting.
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Harness Compatibility: If you plan to use a harness, the dong must have a flared base wider than the shaft, or an O-ring attachment. Standard dongs won't stay secure in harnesses.
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Temperature Response: Glass and metal conduct temperature and can be warmed or cooled before use. Silicone stays at room temperature. If temperature play appeals to you, choose non-porous materials.
Looking After Your Dongs
Silicone dongs wash easily with warm soapy water and dry completely before storage. Glass and metal can be boiled for sterilisation, then cooled. Use water-based lubricant with silicone toys—oil and silicone lubes degrade the material over time. Any lubricant works with glass and metal. Store in a drawer or bag away from direct sunlight, which can discolour silicone. Keep dongs separate from other toys to prevent material degradation from contact.
Goes Well With
Harnesses
A harness transforms a dong into a strap-on, enabling hands-free penetration during sex. Whether you're exploring role play or enabling one partner to penetrate while keeping hands free for touch and caressing, harnesses pair with compatible dongs to open new possibilities.
Read Up
New to dongs or interested in G-spot exploration? Our guide covers curve selection, depth comfort, positioning for G-spot contact, and breathing techniques to relax during deeper penetration. Read the beginner's guide to dongs.
Shop Dongs
Our range includes curved dongs for G-spot targeting, realistic designs for visual and textural familiarity, glass and metal options for firmness and temperature play, and harness-compatible styles for strap-on use. Sizes range from discreet to substantial, with straight and curved shafts available. Discreet delivery Australia-wide.