1
3
Paddle XOXO by Easytoys
- $39.99
- $39.99
- Unit price
- per
Black spanking paddle with red XOXO imprint for impact play. Flat surface distributes force evenly during BDSM scenes.
Key Features:
Red XOXO imprint creates lasting visual feedback during impact play
Ergonomic grip design prevents hand fatigue during extended scenes
Flat broad surface distributes impact evenly across skin safely
Lightweight construction allows controlled, precise striking without arm strain
Body-safe materials resist moisture and staining from regular use
Please hurry! Only 0 left in stock
Fetish Collection XOXO BDSM Play Paddle Black is a spanking paddle designed for couples exploring power exchange dynamics. This paddle features a striking red "XOXO" imprint that marks skin during impact play. The ergonomic shape makes it comfortable to grip and control, delivering consistent sensations with each strike.
What Is Fetish Collection XOXO BDSM Play Paddle Black?
This paddle combines aesthetic appeal with functional design for BDSM enthusiasts. The black surface contrasts with the bold red text, making it visually striking during scenes. Its practical construction means you can focus on connection rather than struggling with awkward handling.
See the full range in our bondage paddles collection. The flat, broad striking surface distributes impact evenly across the skin, reducing concentrated pressure points that can cause unwanted bruising.
Why This Stands Out
- Red XOXO imprint creates visual feedback during impact play
- Ergonomic grip fits naturally in hand without slipping
- Flat surface provides controlled, consistent impact sensation
- Lightweight design allows extended play sessions without fatigue
- Black finish hides wear marks from regular use
For couples wanting to introduce power dynamics into their intimacy, this paddle works as both a practical tool and a visual statement. Related options are in sex toys for couples, offering alternatives for different impact intensities and preferences.
Material Quality and Body Safety
The paddle is made from body-safe materials designed to withstand repeated impact play without degrading. Its smooth surface prevents splinters or sharp edges, and the material resists moisture and staining from skin contact during scenes.
How to Use It Best
Getting Started
- Discuss intensity levels and boundaries with your partner beforehand
- Start with lighter strikes to gauge sensation and skin response
- Grip the handle firmly but not tensely during use
- Focus strikes on padded areas like glutes and thighs, avoiding sensitive regions
- Check in with your partner after each impact to confirm comfort
Enhanced Use and Combinations
Combine this paddle with other BDSM elements like restraints or sensation play. The visual imprint it leaves can be part of the psychological dynamic, creating lasting sensation memory. Temperature play with ice afterward can heighten the overall experience.
Care and Storage
Clean the paddle with warm soapy water after each scene and dry thoroughly. Store in a cool, dry location away from direct sunlight. Regular maintenance prevents material degradation and keeps it hygienic for ongoing use.
Feel and Sensations – Honest Expectations
Impact from this paddle creates a sharp, stinging sensation rather than deep pressure. The broad surface distributes force, so you feel defined impact without overwhelming intensity. Most people describe the sensation as warm and focused, with the imprint providing visual feedback that enhances the psychological aspect.
Intensity builds quickly with repeated strikes, so pacing matters. The flat design means impact is predictable and controllable, making it suitable for both experienced players and those exploring BDSM for the first time. Skin sensitivity varies significantly, so communication with your partner remains essential.
Why This Product Matters
Impact play strengthens communication and trust between partners. Using a tool like this paddle creates clear boundaries and requires ongoing consent negotiation, deepening intimate connection. The physical sensation of controlled impact releases endorphins, creating a natural high that many describe as meditative during scenes. For couples wanting to explore power exchange, this paddle removes ambiguity about intensity since the broad surface provides consistent, measurable sensation. The psychological element of the visible imprint adds a dimension beyond physical feeling, extending the scene into aftercare and recovery conversations. This balance between physical sensation and emotional connection makes impact play a complete experience rather than just a striking tool.
Our In-House Tester Review
I approached this paddle expecting something gimmicky, but the construction impressed me immediately. The grip feels substantial without being heavy, and the balance point sits naturally in my hand. During my test, the red imprint was clearly visible on skin, creating the visual feedback the design promises. The paddle delivers a satisfying sound on impact that adds psychological dimension to the scene. My partner noted the sensation was sharp but not painful, with recovery happening quickly. The broad surface meant I could control intensity by adjusting strike speed rather than worrying about concentrated pressure. After multiple scenes, the material shows no degradation and cleans easily with soap and water. What surprised me most was how the imprint lasted—it stayed visible for hours, creating ongoing sensation awareness long after the scene ended. Individual results may vary based on anatomy, sensitivity, and usage.
How It Compares to Similar Products
| Product Type | Unique Advantage | Key Difference | Choose This If You Want |
|---|---|---|---|
| Fetish Collection XOXO BDSM Play Paddle Black | Branded imprint creates visual feedback and psychological impact | Aesthetic design with functional impact distribution | Visual feedback combined with controlled sensation |
| Couples vibrators | Provides sustained stimulation rather than impact sensation | Generates pleasure through vibration instead of percussion | Clitoral or prostate stimulation during foreplay or partnered use |
| Couples penis sleeves | Enhances sensation during penetration for both partners | Focuses on internal sensation rather than impact play | Increased friction and texture during intimate connection |
| Bondage and fetish gear | Multiple tools for comprehensive BDSM exploration | Broader range of sensations beyond impact alone | Complete BDSM toolkit for complex scenes and variety |
Each option serves different purposes in couples play. Impact paddles focus on sensation and power exchange, while vibrators emphasize pleasure and stimulation. Penis sleeves enhance penetrative sensation, and complete BDSM gear provides versatility for longer scenes with varied elements.
Learn More
Power exchange requires clear communication and boundaries. For a deeper understanding of BDSM dynamics and safety practices, read our article on BDSM contracts and consent frameworks for additional insights into establishing agreements that enhance trust.
Buy Now From Sex-Toys Australia
The XOXO paddle's visual imprint feedback delivers sensations standard paddles can't match. Order now and experience the difference aesthetic design makes in BDSM scenes. Discreet Australian shipping means you can start within days.
Shipping Information & Policy
Sex-toy.com.au ships with Australia Post. We ship from Sydney.
All in-stock orders placed before 12pm AEST (Sydney Time) on business days are generally processed on the same day. Packages are usually received 1-6 business days after shipping, but may subject to any postage carrier related delays beyond our control.
Free standard shipping on orders shipped within Australia above $200. For orders below $200 standard shipping within Australia is $12.95 and will be added at checkout.
Orders addressed to P.O box, G.P.O box or Parcel Collect will be handled by Australia Post. Extra time should be allocated for these orders.
Shipping Transit Times (Including Free Shipping)
Shipping time refers to the estimated time that it will take to deliver your order after it’s ready to ship (Please note this does not include time to process your order). Shipping time does not commence after your order is put through but begins the moment your order has been processed and is ready to dispatch via the our freight carrier..
1. Major City & Metro Areas (within Australia)
All in stock orders are generally processed on the same day the order was placed on business days for orders received before 12pm. Generally, orders are processed and shipped the same day or next business day.
Orders are typically received 1-6 business days after shipping. For larger packages please allow an extra 1-2 business days for delivery.
If no one is available at your delivery address to accept your order a second delivery may be scheduled or you will be notified that your order can be collected from the nearest depot location.
2. Rural Areas (within Australia)
All orders are generally processed on the same day the order was placed on business days before 12pm.
Generally, orders are processed and shipped the same day or next Business day.
Packages below 2kg are usually received 3-6 business days after shipping. For larger packages please allow an extra 1-2 business days for delivery.
If no one is available at your delivery address to accept your order a second delivery may be scheduled or you will be notified that your order can be collected from the local Australia Post depot.
International Shipping
The price for international shipping is AU$12.95 for orders equal to or below 0.399kg (399grams), and AU$22.95 for orders with a total weight equal to or above 0.4kg (400 grams).
All in-stock orders placed before 12pm AEST (Sydney Time) on business days are generally processed on the same day. Packages are usually received 6-30 business days after shipping.
If no one is available at your delivery address to accept your order a second delivery may be scheduled or you will be notified that your order can be collected from your nearest delivery depot.
Please note in regards to all orders
– These expected delivery dates/times are based on carrier shipping practices, your destination, and the items in your order.
– Expected delivery dates are estimates. Orders can be delayed due to fraud verification or the time of the order being placed. Items that are not regularly stocked cannot be held to the expected delivery dates.
– Orders may be delivered in separate shipments.
– The order cut off times are based on normal Business Hours and exclude weekends and Holidays: Monday – Friday 12 pm
– When your order ships you will receive an email from us with a link to track your order. If you receive your tracking number before 6 pm (AEST) it may not be updated on the Carrier’s website until that evening.
Due to large amounts of online credit card fraud, all orders are subject to approval by our payment verification department. We will notify you by phone or email should your order be delayed.
Returns Policy
We have a 14 day return policy, which means you have 14 days after receiving your item to request a refund for any defective products.
Returns and exchanges are only available for faulty items, goods not as described, or in some instances, for incorrect sizing.
Due to health and safety regulations, sex-toy.com.au cannot resell any returned or exchanged products.
This policy is in place to prioritise your well-being and ensure that you receive the highest standard of hygiene and quality in all products.
To be eligible for a refund, your item must be in the same condition that you received it, unworn or unused, with tags, and in its original packaging.
You’ll also need the receipt or proof of purchase. We do not issue refunds for change of mind or incorrect choice.
Under Australian Consumer Law, we are not obliged to accept returns for “incorrect choice” or “change of mind” so please choose your products carefully.
Any freight and insurance costs to return the item to us are at your expense. This includes the liability for any lost freight – send via registered post.
If your return request is accepted, we will provide you with all instructions on how and where to send your package. Items sent back to us without first requesting a return will not be accepted.
Damages and issues
Please inspect your order upon reception and contact us immediately if the item is defective, damaged or if you receive the wrong item, so that we can evaluate the issue and make it right.
Exceptions / non-returnable items
We do not accept returns for any products that have change of mind, damaged products, or for products that have been used or do not have their original packaging.
Please get in touch if you have questions or concerns about your specific item.
Unfortunately, we cannot accept returns on sale items or gift cards.
Refunds
We will notify you once we’ve received and inspected your return, and let you know if the refund was approved or not. If approved, you’ll be automatically refunded on your original payment method within 7 business days.
Please remember it can take some time for your bank or credit card company to process and post the refund too.
Frequently Asked Questions
What is the Fetish Collection XOXO BDSM Play Paddle Black and how does it enhance impact play scenes?
Designed for couples exploring power exchange dynamics, this paddle features a striking red "XOXO" imprint that marks skin during impact play. The ergonomic grip fits naturally in your hand without slipping, while the flat, broad surface distributes impact evenly across skin. Lightweight construction allows extended play sessions without hand fatigue, making it practical for both beginners and experienced BDSM enthusiasts exploring controlled sensation together.
Are the sensations from the Fetish Collection XOXO BDSM Play Paddle Black sharp and controlled?
Sharp, stinging sensation characterizes impact from this paddle rather than deep pressure. The broad surface distributes force evenly, creating defined, predictable impact that feels warm and focused across the skin. Most people describe sensation as controlled and manageable, with intensity building gradually through repeated strikes. The visible red imprint provides psychological feedback that enhances the overall experience, making sensation memory last hours after play concludes.
Why is the ergonomic grip important with the Fetish Collection XOXO BDSM Play Paddle Black?
Extended play sessions become manageable when grip fatigue isn't a concern. Natural hand positioning means you maintain control throughout scenes without tension or awkward repositioning interrupting connection with your partner. Lightweight design reduces arm strain significantly, allowing you to focus on communication and sensation rather than struggling with handling. The secure grip prevents accidental slipping during impact, ensuring consistent, intentional strikes that build trust through predictability.
What type of couple would benefit most from the Fetish Collection XOXO BDSM Play Paddle Black?
Partners exploring power dynamics for the first time, couples seeking visual feedback during impact play, and those wanting to deepen trust through controlled sensation exchange find this paddle particularly valuable. People interested in psychological aspects of BDSM alongside physical sensation appreciate the branded imprint's lasting visibility. Those avoiding concentrated pressure points while maintaining defined impact sensations discover this paddle bridges intensity control with aesthetic appeal, making it ideal for intentional scene progression.
Does maintenance require special products for the Fetish Collection XOXO BDSM Play Paddle Black?
Simple warm soapy water and thorough drying keep this paddle hygienic and ready for ongoing use without degradation. Body-safe materials resist moisture and staining from skin contact, remaining in excellent condition through regular scenes. Store in cool, dry locations away from direct sunlight to preserve material integrity over time. Individual results may vary based on anatomy, sensitivity, and usage. Regular cleaning prevents buildup and maintains the smooth surface that prevents splinters or sharp edges during play.
Related Products
Example product title
- $39.99
- $39.99
- Unit price
- per
Example product title
- $39.99
- $39.99
- Unit price
- per
Example product title
- $39.99
- $39.99
- Unit price
- per
Example product title
- $39.99
- $39.99
- Unit price
- per
Example product title
- $39.99
- $39.99
- Unit price
- per
Example product title
- $39.99
- $39.99
- Unit price
- per
Recently Viewed
Example product title
- $39.99
- $39.99
- Unit price
- per
Example product title
- $39.99
- $39.99
- Unit price
- per
Example product title
- $39.99
- $39.99
- Unit price
- per
Example product title
- $39.99
- $39.99
- Unit price
- per
Example product title
- $39.99
- $39.99
- Unit price
- per
Example product title
- $39.99
- $39.99
- Unit price
- per
Why Shop With Sex Toys Australia?
- Choosing a selection results in a full page refresh.